Our Mission

Structure ~ Confidence ~ Leadership


One of the most pressing challenges facing our society today is a lack of discipline, civility, and leadership in our communities. We seem to be living in an era of rudeness. Today our morality is gone. Cursing, vulgar language and disrespect have become the cultural norm in our schools and neighborhood, while integrity and social courtesy seems to be a thing of the past. We now live in a society where communication revolves around immodest behavior and character assassination.

To restore ethical behavior in our civilization, we need to begin with the next generation. Good manners and leadership excellence are the lubricating oil of successful people. Effective leaders today know that good manners are critical to success in workplace relationships, team performance, and customer service. 

School systems  and trade programs have done a phenomenal job equipping students with the knowledge required to succeed in today’s workforce; however, degrees and/or certificate only proves capability to perform the job, whereas, essential life skills such as empathy, communication, principles, initiative, and disposition ultimately lands the job because people don’t just hire degrees and certificates, people hire people.


Meet the Founder


Shanithia Jhons (1st Lady)

*Etiquette Connoisseur, Image Consultant and Life Coach; 

Specializing in Personal Development and Professional Ethics and Conduct*

Working with individuals, corporations, and organizations, Shanithia Jhons educates in a way that is both instructional and entertaining, helping her clients increase their confidence levels as they become the best version of themselves.  

Etiquette is not mere words to Shanithia they are a way of life. As a certified etiquette consultant, she inspires others by teaching proper etiquette in her dynamic seminars and creative classes around the world.  Classes taught are focused not only on outside mannerisms, but on internal characteristics such as high morals, values, standards, and ethics. 

In 2006, she founded D.O.Z.P.C. which is a non-profit organization specializing in creating total healing and restoration from the inside out: Mind, Body, Soul, and Spirit. It is from here her passion grew prompting her to open 3Phases School of Manners, Etiquette & Protocol (formally known as 3Phases 2A Lady Etiquette School). Shanithia saw that there was a profound need in the community for ethics and etiquette. In 2017, she started "A Room For My Ladies" housing program providing shelter to single ladies, mothers with children and veteran women in need of a safe and secure place to call home.

Although she's a self-taught etiquette instructor, Shanithia holds numerous etiquette certifications, as well as countless certificates, acknowledgments, and awards for outstanding services offered throughout the United States. Her extensive background with corporate and community experience, reaffirm her belief that proper manners and social courtesies are an essential part of functioning successfully in today's world. 

Shanithia has authored numerous quality curriculum, which are taught to students of 

3Phases as well as instructors who become licensed to teach her programs. 

Moving at a rapid pace, it came to no surprise to see other community leaders acknowledge  Shanithia for her outstanding leadership capabilities and commitment to the community. She  has received recognition from a myriad of organizations. She has been on numerous media  outlets including BET,  WGPR “It’s All About Us “Family Radio Show and "On The Go With Tiffany Patton". .

Today, Shanithia presses on by encouraging adults, teens and children to live a better life by incorporating etiquette as a lifestyle. She currently visits a number of organizations indoctrinating workplace etiquette for adults and regular after school programs in schools throughout Michigan. 

Shanithia’s seminars and workshops encourages you to do better by challenging yourself to live your life with a new shade of etiquette by simply being your end result now. Her life examples empowers people to look in the mirror instead of pointing the finger, and decide that growth and 

change begins within you.